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BABY!! Reality shows star husbands are getting locked up left and right!

Love & Hip Hop New York’s star Mendeecees Harris gets eight years after pleading guilty to drug-trafficking charges. Mendeecees Harris says he takes full responsibility in an Instagram post.

I want you all to understand something. I completely accept responsibility for all that is going on. My transition to be a better person a productive person started well before this case. However in my past I made some bad decisions. Young men let my life be an example to you now before it’s too late. Better who you are now in your children’s lives and in society so you can change the path of your fate. Lack of opportunities, a fatherless home, the unforgiven neighborhood and circumstances you grew up in can no longer be your excuse. Trust me I tried. And it doesn’t make the pain your family feels any different. Young man educate your self and break the cycle. Don’t become a number on the DOA (dead on arrival) list or on the incarceration list. To my wife and children you are all strong and well prepared for this. This is just another brick laid down towards our house of happily ever after , walk with your head held high knowing I would never past the buck and put another family through what we have endured. Continue to walk in faith and love as you’ve done so well. To my peoples thank you for all the encouragement and support please continue to encourage my family. Thank you again all.

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When I first heard the news I didn’t feel sorry for him.  I just didn’t quite get why people were feeling sorry and praying for him. Not to mention, that I’ve never met this man and never watched Love & Hip Hop New York. Incarceration sometimes destroys families. and Secondly, this man has kids and a family makes me feel a little sympathy for him. We don’t know what motivated him to do what he did. If he is willing to accept what he did was wrong that makes him a good man in my eyes.

My girl KMichelle also had some encouraging words for him and his family.

Where do I start? It’s late and I’m just leaving the studio but honestly this is heavy on my heart. @yandysmith and @mendeecees I respect u both dearly. Yandy, your dedication and love for your husband is not only motivational to me but inspiring. I’ve been in several relationships but never truly valued love. My motto has been hurt them, before they hurt me. After being apart of your wedding and just witnessing the loyalty and determination to not give up on love and make your family work it opened my eyes. I realized I was loving wrong. Love isn’t for cowards and that’s what I was a coward numb to any emotion. My words were just lies to play the role. I can honestly say I had NEVER truly been in love with any man in my life. I just hated sleeping alone. We all make mistakes and even though @mendeecees is having to pay for them now, his fight to get his life right and love his family is so promising and real. You guys are the definition on REAL black love. In a world where men would much rather run from commitment and think it’s cool to collect hearts you guys are the real deal. The last four months I decided to be honest with myself and finally let my guard down and try out love, and I must say you guys gave me the courage to do that. Who knows what will happen, but I do know I won’t be settling or accepting anything other than the purest and ultimate attention, time, and respect towards me, and I will do the same. And if they can’t be that to me, there’s no me in the equation. You guys rock. Kiss the babies, me and Sklar still have an ice cream date coming up! Allow this test to be your testimony and inspire others. I Love yall❤️ Time will fly he will be home before you know it Yandy❤️ A photo posted by K. Michelle (@kmichellemusic) on


Let’s wish Mendeeecess the best. Furthermore, I hope his message “touch n agree” with some to understand that for every action there is a reaction.


Do you think Mendeecees will serve all eight years?






  1. Joann

    December 4, 2015 at 11:33 pm

    Two words early release

    • Brittany

      December 5, 2015 at 2:42 pm

      Yeah I agree. I’m sure he won’t do all 8. We shall see…..

  2. Nikke Nikke

    December 5, 2015 at 11:40 am

    I hope that he gets a chance to get out early eight years is a long time to miss from your children’s lives.

  3. bryonna

    December 5, 2015 at 6:05 pm

    I said the same thing! For one yandy had to know what he was into long before he got busted and she still had kids with him,even while he was out on bond. Like girl who is doing the thinking in that house?I’m not saying don’t stick by her husband because honestly I would because that was the choice I made with the man I love however I word expect sympathy either. They put themselves and their children in that situation, I don’t feel bad for anyone but the kids. He might get out early for good behavior only time will tell

  4. Stephanie

    December 5, 2015 at 6:27 pm

    If he got Fed time, he will be pooching around cell block D for the entire 8yrs.

  5. MsDtown

    December 6, 2015 at 1:27 am

    This is so sad. However, I think I am starting to see a trend in the shift for many in high profile circumstances with a platform, like K. Michelle, really start to let go of this ‘love isn’t real’ bs. Hopefully, this kind of message from celebrities will start to make people reevaluate the lies we’re telling each other these days. Men and women need each other – regardless of preference/orientation, the heart is valuable and this THOT culture (men and women THOTS) needs to calm down for real. Life isn’t easy, and we don’t need to promote the destruction of the very thing that can heal us all – LOVE.

    • Candygirl

      December 6, 2015 at 7:07 am

      Great comment. Love, especially Black love is beautiful and can be great.

  6. Tina

    December 6, 2015 at 7:15 am

    No He will not serve all 8. He may do 1 year then probation

    • Bill

      December 7, 2015 at 3:46 am

      What planet are you on?! Go back to school! Read a book, please!!!

  7. Minnie

    December 6, 2015 at 4:46 pm

    Justin! That graphic! lol

  8. Virginia Alexander

    December 7, 2015 at 11:59 am

    MNDEECEE was well rewarded for his bad behavior ! Nuff said

  9. Ki_Kierra

    December 14, 2015 at 10:45 pm

    What happens in the dark shall come to light. Like someone said in an earlier comment I feel sorry for those kids. The thing about Yandy as well as Phaedra; they both had to know about their husbands past/present lifestyles. I think that it’s sad to get married and then have your husband taken away from you for 8+years. The question is… How long do I suppose to wait for you??? If you loved me you would let me be free. Being with someone that’s locked up is hard. All of the procedures you have to go through…It’s like your locked up to. As a man you shouldn’t want your family to go through all of that. Idk…My opinion…JS…

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With their favorite women’s empowerment song playing in the background, some of our favorite celebs have hopped on a hashtag to celebrate Women’s History Month.

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“She’s broke!” Eva Marcille’s Bitter Bridesmaid Spills Tea to Marlo Hampton




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Eva The Diva and her cousin, Terrell Mullin, have been on the defensive since the latest episode of Real Housewives of Atlanta aired. The recently wed winner of the third cycle of America’s Next Top Model has been slandered by her own bridesmaid, Seannita Parmer.

Parmer confided in Marlo Hampton with the juicy details of Eva’s financials, alleging that she and her husband, Atlanta attorney Michael Sterling, are struggling. Marlo says that Seannita called her, introduced herself, and then dropped the motherlode of receipts. But according to Marlo, we haven’t even heard it all.

No Money, Mo’ Problems

Sitting with NeNe Leakes and discussing the beautiful ceremony, for which The Sterlings spared no expense, Marlo said, “They probably did not, but they should have.” Running down a segment of their financial woes, Marlo said the streets told her Eva is paying for everything, they’re living in a rented home, and they are facing eviction! She also spilled tea regarding several unpaid bills and alluded to them allegedly using a backhanded method to obtain a vehicle.

Furious that Seannita would betray his cousin, established Makeup Artist Terrell Mullin spilled some of her tea in return. Mullin claims that Seannita Parmer went on her own broke and homeless tour that lasted two years. Crashing on Eva Marcille’s couch, Parmer allegedly stayed rent free at her Los Angeles home. Outraged, Eva chimed in, leaving a comment calling her “just trash.”

However, Seannita came back with a rebuttal, stating she “slept in the 3rd bedroom to help take care of her daughter.” Not only did she still own a home during this time, Seannita says the “5 bedroom house with an elevator she used to film RHOA in and also the house her and her husband lived in was rented by my family as well.” She then said Eva Marcille ran up the utilities on the property in a senior citizen’s name and they haven’t paid them yet. Seannita Parmer says her family is filing suit today.

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So because I bring info to the group I’m messy, unhappy & jealous, PLEASE! I stated what the streets was saying, just like these girls have done to me for the last 6 years, however this tea came with RECEIPTS, so why would I not bring it to her Big Sis who could let her know her business was being spread by her supposed best friends & bridesmaids. Even some of her so called new friends were giggling when they heard the tea, but so concerned when spilling it to her 👀. … And to show y’all how messy I’M NOT, I didn’t even share all the documentation/proof I was given. I’ve endured so many nasty LIES about me in this group of women, I date old white men, I’m a prostitute, NO — What I am is a single woman that dates men that I’m attracted to of any color! I came on RHOA with a Black Man, Charles Grant, I was the breadwinner in the relationship 😉 the white billionaire they love to mention was my boyfriend for over 4 years, he courted me for 6 months while I ran my store the Red Carpet Boutique, we were in love, it didn’t work out, he broke my heart. … Please give me a receipt, a picture, a screen shot of me being a Ho, Prostitute, Escort… I’ve been waiting for 6 years, seriously, show it! I’m a #FactStater, I say what they’re thinking and do what I want. Is my delivery the best, No, I’m working on that, but it’s always truthful & without malice. …. Having a husband & family is important to me, but I grew up without a father and half of a mother, I know how to survive. I take care of me, I’ve survived this far & doing damn good. I’ll take that step, when the time is right, for the right reasons. … Not because society says so, not because it’s the trend & definitely not because a group of bored, bitter women with washed up careers think I should because they are threatened by a confident, sexy, educated, hard working & fashionable Single Woman… #Periodt And don’t get it twisted I don’t date broke, go purchase one of my t shirts if you feel me, 10% now using code “FactStater” never jealous of a 🍑 cause the 💰is secured, half the work, double the pay, winning 🤷🏽‍♀️.

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Because Marlo Hampton was the one to spill the tea, she’s been catching all the heat. In a long Instagram caption, Marlo defended herself against the many rumors that she’s just a messy escort. She ended her rant with “never jealous of a peach cause the bag is secured, half the work, double the pay, winning.”



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Andrea Kelly Joins Growing Up Hip Hop: Atlanta Cast




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Growing Up Hip Hop: Atlanta returns Summer 2019. Will you be watching?



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