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BABY!! Reality shows star husbands are getting locked up left and right!

Love & Hip Hop New York’s star Mendeecees Harris gets eight years after pleading guilty to drug-trafficking charges. Mendeecees Harris says he takes full responsibility in an Instagram post.

I want you all to understand something. I completely accept responsibility for all that is going on. My transition to be a better person a productive person started well before this case. However in my past I made some bad decisions. Young men let my life be an example to you now before it’s too late. Better who you are now in your children’s lives and in society so you can change the path of your fate. Lack of opportunities, a fatherless home, the unforgiven neighborhood and circumstances you grew up in can no longer be your excuse. Trust me I tried. And it doesn’t make the pain your family feels any different. Young man educate your self and break the cycle. Don’t become a number on the DOA (dead on arrival) list or on the incarceration list. To my wife and children you are all strong and well prepared for this. This is just another brick laid down towards our house of happily ever after , walk with your head held high knowing I would never past the buck and put another family through what we have endured. Continue to walk in faith and love as you’ve done so well. To my peoples thank you for all the encouragement and support please continue to encourage my family. Thank you again all.

A photo posted by Mendeecees Harris (@mendeecees) on

When I first heard the news I didn’t feel sorry for him.  I just didn’t quite get why people were feeling sorry and praying for him. Not to mention, that I’ve never met this man and never watched Love & Hip Hop New York. Incarceration sometimes destroys families. and Secondly, this man has kids and a family makes me feel a little sympathy for him. We don’t know what motivated him to do what he did. If he is willing to accept what he did was wrong that makes him a good man in my eyes.

My girl KMichelle also had some encouraging words for him and his family.

Where do I start? It’s late and I’m just leaving the studio but honestly this is heavy on my heart. @yandysmith and @mendeecees I respect u both dearly. Yandy, your dedication and love for your husband is not only motivational to me but inspiring. I’ve been in several relationships but never truly valued love. My motto has been hurt them, before they hurt me. After being apart of your wedding and just witnessing the loyalty and determination to not give up on love and make your family work it opened my eyes. I realized I was loving wrong. Love isn’t for cowards and that’s what I was a coward numb to any emotion. My words were just lies to play the role. I can honestly say I had NEVER truly been in love with any man in my life. I just hated sleeping alone. We all make mistakes and even though @mendeecees is having to pay for them now, his fight to get his life right and love his family is so promising and real. You guys are the definition on REAL black love. In a world where men would much rather run from commitment and think it’s cool to collect hearts you guys are the real deal. The last four months I decided to be honest with myself and finally let my guard down and try out love, and I must say you guys gave me the courage to do that. Who knows what will happen, but I do know I won’t be settling or accepting anything other than the purest and ultimate attention, time, and respect towards me, and I will do the same. And if they can’t be that to me, there’s no me in the equation. You guys rock. Kiss the babies, me and Sklar still have an ice cream date coming up! Allow this test to be your testimony and inspire others. I Love yall❤️ Time will fly he will be home before you know it Yandy❤️ A photo posted by K. Michelle (@kmichellemusic) on


Let’s wish Mendeeecess the best. Furthermore, I hope his message “touch n agree” with some to understand that for every action there is a reaction.


Do you think Mendeecees will serve all eight years?






  1. Joann

    December 4, 2015 at 11:33 pm

    Two words early release

    • Brittany

      December 5, 2015 at 2:42 pm

      Yeah I agree. I’m sure he won’t do all 8. We shall see…..

  2. Nikke Nikke

    December 5, 2015 at 11:40 am

    I hope that he gets a chance to get out early eight years is a long time to miss from your children’s lives.

  3. bryonna

    December 5, 2015 at 6:05 pm

    I said the same thing! For one yandy had to know what he was into long before he got busted and she still had kids with him,even while he was out on bond. Like girl who is doing the thinking in that house?I’m not saying don’t stick by her husband because honestly I would because that was the choice I made with the man I love however I word expect sympathy either. They put themselves and their children in that situation, I don’t feel bad for anyone but the kids. He might get out early for good behavior only time will tell

  4. Stephanie

    December 5, 2015 at 6:27 pm

    If he got Fed time, he will be pooching around cell block D for the entire 8yrs.

  5. MsDtown

    December 6, 2015 at 1:27 am

    This is so sad. However, I think I am starting to see a trend in the shift for many in high profile circumstances with a platform, like K. Michelle, really start to let go of this ‘love isn’t real’ bs. Hopefully, this kind of message from celebrities will start to make people reevaluate the lies we’re telling each other these days. Men and women need each other – regardless of preference/orientation, the heart is valuable and this THOT culture (men and women THOTS) needs to calm down for real. Life isn’t easy, and we don’t need to promote the destruction of the very thing that can heal us all – LOVE.

    • Candygirl

      December 6, 2015 at 7:07 am

      Great comment. Love, especially Black love is beautiful and can be great.

  6. Tina

    December 6, 2015 at 7:15 am

    No He will not serve all 8. He may do 1 year then probation

    • Bill

      December 7, 2015 at 3:46 am

      What planet are you on?! Go back to school! Read a book, please!!!

  7. Minnie

    December 6, 2015 at 4:46 pm

    Justin! That graphic! lol

  8. Virginia Alexander

    December 7, 2015 at 11:59 am

    MNDEECEE was well rewarded for his bad behavior ! Nuff said

  9. Ki_Kierra

    December 14, 2015 at 10:45 pm

    What happens in the dark shall come to light. Like someone said in an earlier comment I feel sorry for those kids. The thing about Yandy as well as Phaedra; they both had to know about their husbands past/present lifestyles. I think that it’s sad to get married and then have your husband taken away from you for 8+years. The question is… How long do I suppose to wait for you??? If you loved me you would let me be free. Being with someone that’s locked up is hard. All of the procedures you have to go through…It’s like your locked up to. As a man you shouldn’t want your family to go through all of that. Idk…My opinion…JS…

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And Now Our Watch Has Ended: Game of Thrones Conclusion Falls Flat




Lovers of the fantasy series Game of Thrones tuned in for the nonsensical ending Sunday night. Much to their dismay, the conclusion to the once well-crafted tale left them with more continuity errors and questions than they bargained for.

Caution: This post contains spoilers for the entire series of Game of Thrones!

Howland Reed, The Grand Maester Conspiracy, The North Remembers, Lady Stoneheart. There were so many neglected arcs in the series that led to the rushed ending fans received last night. Although some still look fondly upon the franchise as one of the most enthralling, culturally captivating shows of all time, it’s memory is forever laced not just with what it included, but with what it altered or flat out ignored.

Originally foreseen by George R.R. Martin as having a Tolkien-esque ending where all loose ends are tied, showrunners David Benioff and D.B. Weiss are being roasted for the botched ending they’ve presented to a longsuffering fanbase. Appearing to have conveniently forgotten the iconic author’s grand plan, D & D stood by as plot lines and character arcs suffered from their deviation. No longer able to contain their frustrations fans have been incredibly vocal with their displeasure. Screaming in a single voice and echoing the cast’s sentiments, the Game of Thrones fandom agrees that this ending is “bullshit”.

The beginning of the series finale focused on Tyrion’s journey to uncover the fate of his siblings and Jon’s journey to convince Daenerys not to be “more of the same.” The Red Keep, thought to be in complete ruin, was still accessible to Tyrion, even as he wandered toward the underbelly of the enormous castle. A torch in hand, he dug through bricks to reach the tunnels where Jamie and Cersei lay. In what would be the first of many “What the f*ck?!” moments of the evening, Tyrion actually discovers the corpses of the star-crossed twins. Viewers watched in disappointment as he managed to stand in an area that should have been clearly collapsed, implying that if the lovers stood a few feet to the right, they might have survived the implosion. A travesty! Yet more cringe would follow as the episode unfolded.

For anxious onlookers who couldn’t wait to see what Sunday would bring, they could feast their eyes upon an accurate leak that described the events. Telegraphing Grey Worm’s descent into heartlessness as he killed enemies of “The Queen”, Jon’s eventual betrayal of Daenerys, and even character endings, it all played out just as the unnamed source said things would. No matter how much we wanted it all to be untrue, there it was in all of it’s ugliness. After 10 long years of production, after 2 long years of wait, Game of Thrones ended with democracy, SIX kingdoms, and Bran The Broken, First of His Name ascending to rule.

The overall reception of the conclusion to the series is a solid “NOPE!”. Viewers and critics have given the episode, titled The Iron Throne, a 57% rating. As social media users continue to share the ways in which the end was unfulfilling for them, book readers are urging them to begin reading the texts. There are still two novels left in the series, giving show watchers access to a true ending and the satisfaction of complete arcs with stunning detail.

Were you disappointed with Season 8? Did you think the series finale was an epic conclusion or did it leave much to be desired?



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I wanna see the receipts! Fans Think Porn Star Brittney Jones is the Mother of Trey Songz’ Son




Trey Songz has sent fans into a downward spiral after posting a photo of him holding the foot of his newborn son, Noah. Revealing he’s now a father, fans are left with one question — Who is the mammy?

Us too, bruh!

“Blessed and overjoyed” to have finally become a parent, Trey Songz revealed to the world he and his partner welcomed a son. However, the identity of the other party has remained a mystery…potentially until now. Sleuthing fans have speculated that a porn star named Brittney Jones, who was allegedly responsible for the split between Songz and Lori Harvey, is the mother of his child.

Secret Lovers?

In December 2018, Lori Harvey and Trey Songz split after Lori discovered Trey had some “sick and twisted” desires. Forming a wicked love triangle, his urges led him into the DMs and eventually arms of Brittney Jones, an adult entertainment actress. While many were reluctant to believe she and Trey Songz were in any type of relationship, Brittney had one hell of a way of proving detractors wrong — an ultrasound.

Originally posted by herself and then discovered by The Shade Room, Brittney alleged that she and Songz were not only intimate, she was pregnant! The ultrasound wasn’t all she had in her arsenal at the time. Brittney went on to share seemingly unmanipulated video of her accessing her Snapchat, exposing messages between her and Trey Songz from his personal account. She also shared DMs he sent via his verified Twitter account and text messages where she inadvertently exposed his phone number. But things between the adult film star and singer weren’t all love.

The Dates Don’t Line Up

During the lengthy Instagram Live session where Brittney exposed Trey Songz and their relationship, she stated she had to block the singer because he was obsessed with her. In so many words, Brittney said Trey was so impressed by her sexual prowess that he couldn’t fathom not having her. Using every method of contact he could to ensure he didn’t lose her, Brittney stated he just wouldn’t leave her alone. However, her tune changed not long after she exposed Trigga Trey.

Brittney took a moment to explain her actions and reasoned that she lashed out “to hurt him the way he hurt” her. At the time of this madness, Trey was attempting to make amends with Lori but it didn’t workout. However, that hasn’t stopped Lori from celebrating the birth of Trey’s child despite the fact that it means whoever the mother is, was pregnant in August.

When Brittney claimed to be with child, she was only four weeks along at the end of December. So for those who are searching for the mother of Noah, they’ll have to keep looking.



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On the TLC Tip: Did Bravo Try to Pass Peaches to Chilli and T-Boz?




Would you be interested in seeing T-Boz or Chilli on Real Housewives of Atlanta? According to the TLC members, Bravo has worked hard to convince them to join the series.

While sitting with Entertainment Tonight, T-Boz and Chilli shared they’ve rejected multiple offers to join RHOA over the years. Tionne “T-Boz” Watkins said she had been approached by Bravo reps “four times” and Chilli says she’s shot down casting rumors whenever they emerge.

Having been briefly featured as a guest in an episode with Kandi, T-Boz wants to make it clear she has no aspirations of becoming a regular cast mate. Her sister-in-song agrees. Thinking it would be a bad look for either of them, both ladies say they “have a brand to protect.” When it comes to the content of the series, T-Boz says she simply isn’t the one to try and “there is just no way” she would enter that franchise.

Quick to share why she wouldn’t enjoy being a part of the show, T-Boz stated, “This is the thing, I don’t play like that. Like, I’m not arguing, I’m too old to be arguing, and first of all, I don’t argue with nobody I don’t care about.” Chilli and T-Boz stated they are happy with their music careers and would like to leave it at that.

Do you think T-Boz or Chilli would be a good fit for the show?



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