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BABY!! Reality shows star husbands are getting locked up left and right!

Love & Hip Hop New York’s star Mendeecees Harris gets eight years after pleading guilty to drug-trafficking charges. Mendeecees Harris says he takes full responsibility in an Instagram post.

I want you all to understand something. I completely accept responsibility for all that is going on. My transition to be a better person a productive person started well before this case. However in my past I made some bad decisions. Young men let my life be an example to you now before it’s too late. Better who you are now in your children’s lives and in society so you can change the path of your fate. Lack of opportunities, a fatherless home, the unforgiven neighborhood and circumstances you grew up in can no longer be your excuse. Trust me I tried. And it doesn’t make the pain your family feels any different. Young man educate your self and break the cycle. Don’t become a number on the DOA (dead on arrival) list or on the incarceration list. To my wife and children you are all strong and well prepared for this. This is just another brick laid down towards our house of happily ever after , walk with your head held high knowing I would never past the buck and put another family through what we have endured. Continue to walk in faith and love as you’ve done so well. To my peoples thank you for all the encouragement and support please continue to encourage my family. Thank you again all.

A photo posted by Mendeecees Harris (@mendeecees) on

When I first heard the news I didn’t feel sorry for him.  I just didn’t quite get why people were feeling sorry and praying for him. Not to mention, that I’ve never met this man and never watched Love & Hip Hop New York. Incarceration sometimes destroys families. and Secondly, this man has kids and a family makes me feel a little sympathy for him. We don’t know what motivated him to do what he did. If he is willing to accept what he did was wrong that makes him a good man in my eyes.

My girl KMichelle also had some encouraging words for him and his family.

Where do I start? It’s late and I’m just leaving the studio but honestly this is heavy on my heart. @yandysmith and @mendeecees I respect u both dearly. Yandy, your dedication and love for your husband is not only motivational to me but inspiring. I’ve been in several relationships but never truly valued love. My motto has been hurt them, before they hurt me. After being apart of your wedding and just witnessing the loyalty and determination to not give up on love and make your family work it opened my eyes. I realized I was loving wrong. Love isn’t for cowards and that’s what I was a coward numb to any emotion. My words were just lies to play the role. I can honestly say I had NEVER truly been in love with any man in my life. I just hated sleeping alone. We all make mistakes and even though @mendeecees is having to pay for them now, his fight to get his life right and love his family is so promising and real. You guys are the definition on REAL black love. In a world where men would much rather run from commitment and think it’s cool to collect hearts you guys are the real deal. The last four months I decided to be honest with myself and finally let my guard down and try out love, and I must say you guys gave me the courage to do that. Who knows what will happen, but I do know I won’t be settling or accepting anything other than the purest and ultimate attention, time, and respect towards me, and I will do the same. And if they can’t be that to me, there’s no me in the equation. You guys rock. Kiss the babies, me and Sklar still have an ice cream date coming up! Allow this test to be your testimony and inspire others. I Love yall❤️ Time will fly he will be home before you know it Yandy❤️ A photo posted by K. Michelle (@kmichellemusic) on


Let’s wish Mendeeecess the best. Furthermore, I hope his message “touch n agree” with some to understand that for every action there is a reaction.


Do you think Mendeecees will serve all eight years?






  1. Joann

    December 4, 2015 at 11:33 pm

    Two words early release

    • Brittany

      December 5, 2015 at 2:42 pm

      Yeah I agree. I’m sure he won’t do all 8. We shall see…..

  2. Nikke Nikke

    December 5, 2015 at 11:40 am

    I hope that he gets a chance to get out early eight years is a long time to miss from your children’s lives.

  3. bryonna

    December 5, 2015 at 6:05 pm

    I said the same thing! For one yandy had to know what he was into long before he got busted and she still had kids with him,even while he was out on bond. Like girl who is doing the thinking in that house?I’m not saying don’t stick by her husband because honestly I would because that was the choice I made with the man I love however I word expect sympathy either. They put themselves and their children in that situation, I don’t feel bad for anyone but the kids. He might get out early for good behavior only time will tell

  4. Stephanie

    December 5, 2015 at 6:27 pm

    If he got Fed time, he will be pooching around cell block D for the entire 8yrs.

  5. MsDtown

    December 6, 2015 at 1:27 am

    This is so sad. However, I think I am starting to see a trend in the shift for many in high profile circumstances with a platform, like K. Michelle, really start to let go of this ‘love isn’t real’ bs. Hopefully, this kind of message from celebrities will start to make people reevaluate the lies we’re telling each other these days. Men and women need each other – regardless of preference/orientation, the heart is valuable and this THOT culture (men and women THOTS) needs to calm down for real. Life isn’t easy, and we don’t need to promote the destruction of the very thing that can heal us all – LOVE.

    • Candygirl

      December 6, 2015 at 7:07 am

      Great comment. Love, especially Black love is beautiful and can be great.

  6. Tina

    December 6, 2015 at 7:15 am

    No He will not serve all 8. He may do 1 year then probation

    • Bill

      December 7, 2015 at 3:46 am

      What planet are you on?! Go back to school! Read a book, please!!!

  7. Minnie

    December 6, 2015 at 4:46 pm

    Justin! That graphic! lol

  8. Virginia Alexander

    December 7, 2015 at 11:59 am

    MNDEECEE was well rewarded for his bad behavior ! Nuff said

  9. Ki_Kierra

    December 14, 2015 at 10:45 pm

    What happens in the dark shall come to light. Like someone said in an earlier comment I feel sorry for those kids. The thing about Yandy as well as Phaedra; they both had to know about their husbands past/present lifestyles. I think that it’s sad to get married and then have your husband taken away from you for 8+years. The question is… How long do I suppose to wait for you??? If you loved me you would let me be free. Being with someone that’s locked up is hard. All of the procedures you have to go through…It’s like your locked up to. As a man you shouldn’t want your family to go through all of that. Idk…My opinion…JS…

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“Where is Frank Ocean?” Drake Booed off Camp Flog Gnaw Stage




Boo this man! Boooo! Drake thought a surprise appearance at Tyler, The Creator’s Camp Flog Gnaw festival would go better than this. The Canadian rapper was booed off the stage after attempting to surprise fans by performing before Frank Ocean’s set.

Drake’s surprise appearance at Camp Flog Gnaw was cut short after he was interrupted by boos. The rapper, who arranged the surprise with Tyler The Creator’s approval, stopped in the middle of “Wu-Tang Forever” to gauge the crowd. Saying, “I’m up here for you tonight. If you want to keep going, I will keep going.” Drake asked “What’s up?” Unfortunately, during the pause, some members of the crowd began booing loudly. Bowing out gracefully, Drake said “It’s been love.” and exited stage left. Hoping Frank Ocean would take the stage soon after, fans were met with further disappointment — he refused to perform.

After waiting nearly 15 minutes for Frank Ocean’s performance to begin, fans came to the realization that he wouldn’t take the stage. Presumably punishing the audience for causing Drake to end his set 20 minutes early, fans are agreeing with Frank Ocean’s decisions. One Twitter user commented “Frank not performing is exactly what a crowd who would boo Drake deserves.” Another user echoed their sentiments, saying “Drake, I’m sorry, bro. I’m so sorry. They didn’t deserve you.”

Although Frank Ocean has yet to release a statement, rumors are swirling that Drake was called in to replace the rapper altogether. Frank Ocean allegedly canceled his scheduled appearance at Camp Flog Gnaw, but there is no indication he stepped down on any of his official social media profiles. However, his name was missing from the lineup of the 2-day festival.

With ticket prices ranging from $270 to $1045, fans are sharing their mixed feelings. Some are disappointed they sold their passes and lost the chance to see Drake, others are furious they held on to their tickets and didn’t get to see Frank Ocean.



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T.I. Shares That He Goes To the Gynecologist with His Daughter Deyjah to “Check Her Hymen”




In a move that’s equally as disgusting as YG demanding we protect our “light-skinned pretty girls” while eulogizing Nipsey Hussle at his funeral, T.I. revealed a vile parenting technique. The obsessively possessive father revealed he accompanies his daughter Deyjah to yearly gynecological visits to ensure her hymen is still intact.

Speaking with Nazanin Mandi, wife of singer/songwriter Miguel, on the Ladies Like Us podcast, T.I. revealed a shocking detail about his strict parenting style. Believing his daughter will one day thank him for the experience, T.I. admitted he has his daughter’s hymen inspected yearly to confirm her virginity. Each year after Deyjah Harris celebrates her birthday, she is humiliated by her father through an invasive examination. Describing an encounter from her 16th birthday, T.I. admits to coercing his child into signing over her privileged medical history so he can view the results on his own.

“Usually like the day after the party, she’s enjoying her gifts. I put a sticky note on the door: ‘Gyno. Tomorrow. 9:30.'” T.I. continued that the doctor maintains a high level of professionalism. “He’s like, ‘You know, sir, I hate to, in order to share information’– I’m like, ‘Deyjah, they want you to sign this so we can share information. Is there anything you wouldn’t want me to know? See, doc? No problem!”

While T.I.’s policing of his daughter’s sexuality is no surprise, it is interesting to note that he does not follow a similar practice for his sons. Even more alarming, despite T.I’s history of infidelity, he is equally possessive of his wife’s belongings, i.e. her vagina. “You can’t be rationing out stuff, talking about what you’re going to give nobody because what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is yours.” T.I. unfortunately continued, “That means that little thing you got, that little sex box you got is half mine. So pick which side you want, and that’s yours.” He then went on to suggest splitting her vulva “down the middle of the…what do they call it? The, the the, is it ‘uvula’?”


While T.I. is sure to hear about the social media outrage ensuing following the spread of this news, it is unlikely he’ll change the practice before his youngest daughter is of age. Poor girl.



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Solange Splits from Alan Ferguson




After nearly five years of marriage, Solange Knowles and Alan Ferguson are calling it quits. While the reason behind their separation remains a secret, rumors are swirling that Solange allegedly had an extra marital affair…with a white man.

Solange recently shared a sentimental post to confirm that she and her partner of almost 11 years have separated. But the When I Get Home songstress has remained tight-lipped regarding why they’ve split. Saying it “ain’t nan no body business”, Solange intends to keep the reason under wraps. However, a rumor that Solange had been seeing a white man caused her to break the silence.

Emerging only to discredit the rumor, Solange posted a photo of herself and the man in question, her former co-manager John Bogaard. Captioned “yo ty @onvacation for being the best co-manager for 5 years”, Solange thanked him and apologized the internet was “unkind n b lying”. Having lived her life in the public eye for such a long time, Solange’s decision to “protect the sacredness” of her personal truth comes as no surprise. Commenting on the unfairness of life in the limelight, she believes it’s unfair to not have the power to control her own story, Still, she’s looking ahead positively. With the hope that life’s transitions will be kind, Solange says she;s “leaning into the hear of the unknown” and is relying on the universe’s grace.



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